"Husbands, love your wives," even though external to each other, you came
together into the union of marriage. May the bond of nature, may the yoke
imposed by the blessing make as one those who were divided. A viper, the
cruelest of reptiles, comes for marriage with the sea lamprey and, having
announced its presence by hissing, summons it forth from the depths for
the nuptial embrace. And the lamprey hearkens and is united with the
venemous animal. What do my words mean? That, even if the husband is
rough, even if he is fierce in his manners, the wife must endure and for
no cause whatsoever permit herself to break the union. Is he a brawler?
Nevertheless, he is your husband. Is he a drunkard? Nevertheless, he is
united to you by nature. Is he savage and ill-tempered? Nevertheless, he
is your member and the most honoured of your members.
[6] But let the husband also listen to proper advice for himself. The
viper, through respect for his marriage, disgorges his venom. Will you not
put aside the roughness and cruelty of your soul through the reverence for
the union? Or, perhaps, the example of the viper will be useful for us in
other ways also, because the union of viper and the sea lamprey is an
adulterous violation of nature. Therefore, let those who are plotting
against other men's marriages learn what sort of reptile they resemble.
The edification of the Church is in every way my one aim. Let the passions
of the incontinent be restrained and trained by these examples from the
land and sea.
Saint Basil, Exegetic Homilies, trans Agnes Clare Way, CDP
(Washington, DC: Catholic University of America Press, 1963), 114-15
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